milly 5 months

Right so I while ago I was super late to work because I was getting a possum off a busy road, then my grandpa fell and broke his leg saving a possum and to top it off last night dad was trying to help a baby fruit bat and was bitten. Will update if more of my immediate family chose to care about a random wild animal more than themselves

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parvesh 5 months

Is this a club for Europeans in 1997? Chumbawhumba.

gavinakagriffin. 5 months

Officially am off of dating apps, mainly because I’ve learned. I’m not going to find my ideal love on those apps, and the apps haven’t been good on my mental health generally. Hookup culture is one of the main reasons I quick online dating, it really burns you out. It’s also a bad habit. The other reason, I just kept coming across icky people. Who only cared for hookups, and one night stands. I decided to post this, just to see if anyone is experiencing the same feelings. I’m in this odd stage of knowing what I want with love, I just know I haven’t found what I’m looking for yet. I would like to though, genuine companionship seems nice when the couple has genuine love for each other.

fragmental 5 months

Do you have a song that’s stuck in your head lately? I am curious

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godoffury 5 months

I swear I’m not shy but I’m not at all trusting of people especially those with political views of things

vincentthefox 5 months

Hi. I usually get anxiety attacks from certain shorter events with specific triggers, but lately I have steady anxiety that last for days. Does anyone know ways to ground oneself well? I am constantly all warm and can’t think straight with chest pain and can’t formulate myself well. Workout doesn’t really help, slow deep breaths works in the moment.

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mattbenjammin 5 months

It’s that time of year again in North Carolina where everything is in bloom, including the blooming pear trees - giving off a faint odor of c*m wafting through the air. 🌸💦

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soupwaylee 5 months

i don’t need to move to a different country / change jobs to grow and to push my boundaries by taking risks because i leave the house with just 15 % battery which proves my resilience. i rest my case.

oregano 5 months

I’d love to know - what are my queer lovelies reading right now? 📗 🍉 💕

adriant 5 months

Where are my neurospicy queens at? 🗣️🗣️

patricksf 5 months

Why do we let a handful of out-of-touch old douchebags take our countries to war, enact invasive mass surveillance, and otherwise trample on our liberties? This isn’t just a US problem as we’ve seen with the Epstein files. I dare say that the average citizen everywhere just wants to live peacefully and get along with one another. We need to be louder and stop letting the “elite” in government, finance, and tech control our lives.

euge 5 months

Que pasa hoy en día con las relaciones?? Es solo mi perspectiva o las cosas están jodidas para quienes queremos conocer a alguien para tener una relación?

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sailormars 6 months

Today I saw this woman, and her two kids sitting in the subway. She looked tired, happy yet, tired. She was comforting the baby that was in a bad mood, she gave him cuddles, and the cuddles calmed him down. And I noticed myself, noticing her. And a part of me longing to say. You’re doing so well, thank you for being such a good mother. I got off in my station, said nothing. But my heart had so much to say… That act of kindness touched me.

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thedudewife 5 months

This application has led me to ZERO connections.

alvo 5 months

This app: You might like (insert cute person name here). Me: I do, but they happen to be from a country 11,000 km away from me.

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roccochiii 5 months

Unfortunately my sympathetic nervous system isn’t fight or flight it’s flirt or flee 😔

tudorsremy 5 months

“When I wake up I don’t know where I was last night” the pretty reckless

donovan.dona 5 months

box dye hair does not a new person make

domabouttown 5 months

Can someone explain why y’all are still taking selfies in front of the mirror when we have front and back facing cameras?

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lynx 5 months

Anyone else ever get these moments of clarity? Like moments where u realize that u are? I tend to forget that and then it hits me in the most random moments

lax 5 months

584 Ouff, feels like I’ve got that craving for some really good live EDM/house dj/concert

zayn 5 months

why do i have to be a stupid lover boy god why

drumstick_0428 5 months

Me and my wife want kids so bad but we have no one to ask to fulfill that dream, so now we decide to just try and find a decent looking loyal gay bestie that would be willing to help! Anyone interested?

floydnumba4 5 months

So ready for Hanlans, be à la nood

latsyrk 5 months

If anyone is looking for a model or can put me on to their job in the NYC area hmuuu

sourkosher 5 months

going on week two of stuffy nose. what’s the point

0beron_0restes 5 months

I want that miracle chamber Captain America got into and left as a hunk

ricardof014 5 months

still find it shocking the looks I get when I am speaking in german in the US…..as a latino living in the US. Like „ja digga, ich kann deutsch sprechen. Kein grund zu starren” 🫠🫠

strawbrry 5 months

bitch, the power of a good book!!! I read Milk Fed by Melissa Broden in 2 days.

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locke-e 5 months

Is it Bad to Want it Again I ran back for the sleepless nights, The chase that left me speechless, The game we landed on the hillside. Every time we felt on edge, Or like this would be the last time. I ran for the hill, Just when it got good. Cause nothing lasts forever, That’s what I remember. We lived, Rinsed and Repeated.

jesse-lee 5 months

Finally moved to my new place. Let the unpacking begin

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domabouttown 5 months

Would you date someone your close friend already dated?

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sierramichhh 5 months

A psychic told me I feel like someone has wronged me and that I have an enemy near…..

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andyjo 5 months

is anyone else starting to think perfection is boring?

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jarrodt83 5 months

How many days a week do you go to the gym? And generally how long are your sessions?

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abadieeee 5 months

Litterally can’t stand my new manager at work... what do you guys do to avoid the intrusive urge to strangle them? Open to suggestions thank you

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staige 5 months

Looking for a wife ✂️🤝👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏻‼️

giving-mildly-impressive 5 months

Need a pair of new pillows, ones that are firm,hard and bounce on command 🤭

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iosonoriver 5 months

"I'm coming to the cottage" (is what I want to hear someone say)

marco 5 months

I dreamed of you holding me tightly, but it was only sunlight reaching me in bed through the open curtains.

giving-mildly-impressive 5 months

I think that in most cases for gays to form emotional connections with someone (befriend), they deadass have to somewhat deem the other physically attractive…. And then there’s proximity connection

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matic 5 months

Vinyl collectors - what are the best online stores?

dayegee 5 months

“"I live in the realm of the senses." What an odd thing to say. Later that night, home in bed, I considered what he'd meant. The senses are pure experience, I decided; there is no sense for how things seem, which is what matters to the superficial.” — Holly Brickley, Deep Cuts: a novel (2025)

dylpickles 5 months

T4T is magical 🤍🩷🩵

sailormars 5 months

Don’t be ashamed to be beautiful, don’t be ashamed to be kind, don’t be ashamed to be yourself. You don’t owe anyone anything, stop acting like you owe shame to people. Embrace the beautiful being you are, and create the most wonderful life for yourself. There’s no debt to be paid here, just a life to be lived.

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sailormars 5 months

Breadcrumb recognition 101 If someone is approaching you and isn’t making it clear that they’re interested in you… breadcrumb.

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luke_vieira 5 months

For some reason my last post is randomly getting a lot of attention. Hairy legs are really that powerful, huh? Damn 😂

sierramichhh 5 months

Im tired of fighting people at the gym to not step on/use MY yoga mat….it looks obviously different from the gym mats yet your first thought is “oh!! Let me walk all over it with my dirty sneakers!!!” I should rock ur shit fr

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paul_apolinario 5 months

It hit me the other night Sleepless, I can't get you out of my mind Fantasy of danger, yeah, I like the design Know what I want is to ride, having a crush, ain't a crime

giving-mildly-impressive 6 months

Any gut wrenching sad movies recommendations? I’m trying to bawl my eyes out and rethink life…

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avatar.isaac 5 months

Checking in on my fellow Virgos. How we holding up?

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bran.don 5 months

Mercury Retrograde: Feeling so much but yet nothing at all.

autumnexpected 5 months

Waiting to recover from eye surgery is a frustrating process. Glad I did it but bored haha

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