sierramichhh 5 months

Had my first chopped cheese yesterday…and again today….and probably tomorrow too🤤🤤😍

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paul_apolinario 5 months

The only thing more powerful than hate is love

sierramichhh 5 months

I don’t think its a coincidence at all that I had the WORST most traumatic nightmare filled with turnoil and chaos….and then wake up to being in WW3

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joeey 5 months

Casting call for any London based models! Hit me up and DM me if you’re interested - it’s a paid shoot, modelling jewellery (check out my profile to get an idea). Happy to chat more if you’ve got any questions at all!

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milly 6 months

I’ve been just freely telling literally anyone when I’m on my period for years. Like yeah if I’d tell a cis male coworker that I had a headache they’re also hearing about my cramps, I don’t give a fuck.

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tempson 5 months

I keep sprinkling sumac on everything. It’s so sour but good.

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sam2bh 6 months

i do fear that as a bi man in a hetero relationship i still won’t be accepted by the gay community which is kinda sad

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chandan 5 months

Lol Imagine rage-baiting yourself with imaginary scenarios and then losing sleep over it. Definitely me 👀😳

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andyj 5 months

Six Nations final - six teams in short shorts. What other good moments were there?

lav 5 months

Tom Fords new collection is a sensual haven! 🤤 Haider is such a master tailor 👌

fidalpw 5 months

finally starting fellow travelers 😫

sailormars 5 months

If you struggle with body image or confidence use this tools. I’ve used them in my journey of self improvement and I feel more joyful about life. 1) the job of your emotions it’s to protect you, be kind to them. 2) look at life like a video game, the bosses of the game are your emotional attachments. 3) shame is one of the hardest bosses to beat in the game, the antidote for the poison of shame is Joy. Move your body, express yourself, and remember that no one can shame you. Life has been given to you

brad 6 months

Handed in my notice today after one month. Teaching is one of the most confronting and mentally challenging jobs I’ve ever experienced. It is definitely not for me.

lax 5 months

586 Feels like whenever I am at work, the weather becomes bright and sunny

ryeryewhy 5 months

whenever this song comes on, it never gets skipped. most times it’s repeated. do you have a song/s like that?

milly 5 months

Told my coworker my fave 3 movies and he goes “well I can tell you’re a feminist”

londen 5 months

told oomf I had a taste for a caramel macchiato today and he said that’s so “millennial” of me

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milly 5 months

Coconut and vanilla scents. Squeeze tube lip gloss. Glitter. Powder blue eyeshadow. The sound of layered jewellery when someone moves.

lav 6 months

I experience deep physical and mental discomfort when I’m talking to someone and find out they believe in organized religion.

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simba 6 months

so I have been dating this guy for quite a lot, I like him and I like spending my time with him but I think I’m not developing any romantic feelings for him and I don’t see them coming, so I’m gonna meet him now and tell him how I feel. i’m so scared of hurting him or breaking his heart, but I really don’t see how I can keep going and pushing something that I don’t see coming… I’m scared he’ll feel used by me. Argh

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lax 5 months

598 After keeping an eye out for the pokemon museum, finally got the tickets for them 🥺

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rrccvrdo 5 months

the day anna wintour has zero haters means I will be dead

sirkooala 5 months

WHOS READY FOR SCARY MOVIE 6?!?! 🍿🍿

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lav 6 months

So I have this handsome older Italian doctor, also a fellow gay man and whenever I see him we just both giggle at eachother while I have my eyes glued to his huge biceps 👀 I feel like I should compliment them…

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southerncowrie 6 months

Just got the pictures from a photoshoot I did last month, shared them with friends and we all cried😭 the support from them has been so lovely. Modeling as a side quest was not on my 2026 bingo card but yay

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lynx 5 months

Can’t wait to wake up tomorrow. Even if it’ll be early. Formula 1 is so worth it getting up before 6 on a Saturday. And before 5 on Sunday haha

kraynor98 5 months

Happy International Womens Day!!! 🥳🎀🌎

badis 5 months

When he blocks me cause he realizes I’m not a slave to US propaganda and Imperialism, #goodriddance

strawbrry 6 months

if the Epstein files are triggering your PTSD symptoms and churning up adolescent trauma you’re not alone ❤️‍🩹❤️ these heinous acts seek to isolate us but they can never take away our solidarity and compassion for each other’s suffering. I love you and I’m grateful to have you standing beside me in the fight for justice ❤️🫂 we have NOTHING to be ashamed of.

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sierramichhh 5 months

All men do in the gym is stare…say something or get tf on no shade

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michaeljlyons 5 months

Was thinking about going to Hot Dog Sunday tomorrow. So I bought a ticket for memorial weekend. Planning ahead…

beefgrindr 5 months

Not been sharing because I feel everyone’s out to COPY & PASTE at every corner

rainbowwarrior 5 months

Learning that talking stage doesn’t mean they get a basket. It’s the freest I’ve felt in dating in a while.

strawbrry 5 months

just took a delicious afternoon couch nap

austinsdalley 6 months

Feeling extremely stagnant and lacking creative spark in life but on the bright side I made a perfect carbonara without scrambling the eggs so at least there’s that

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parqbenj 6 months

looking through all the years of your queer upbringing, I wonder, what was the most important thing you had to lose in order to find yourself?

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studiokervo 5 months

I still don’t understand how people can get so good at Dominos ! yes im Caribbean, but I’m also an artist and all that counting and remembering is so out of my league.

pnklmnade 5 months

all roads lead back to you or however the saying goes i’d run into dead ends with nowhere to turn but home dirty knees, no carpet clean, from all my wilderness and now the pinot makes the hero seem so villainess - unfinished song

bartosz 6 months

Friends have been asking me about my dating life a lot lately. And honestly haven’t been on a date in like 6 months. Is anyone else in dating-hibernation atm?

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eyeofpsi 6 months

Gays, be honest: what part of gay culture do you participate in purely out of peer pressure?

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soupwaylee 5 months

my friends are saying shut up jennie just get in the car

milly 5 months

Big fan of how teenage girls engage with media

pnklmnade 5 months

sweet apricot, tastes just like the love i had spread it on like paint, under the sun with his hands in my back pockets isn’t this what it’s all about.

chavdar 5 months

Surely isolation is much worse than togetherness.

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mubeen 5 months

All handsome men live on this app I reckon

sierramichhh 5 months

Got two more inches of snow this morning but shes melting already!

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sierramichhh 6 months

How lucky am I to have a zoo with happy dancing elephants above my apartment 😍😍 (my neighbors running nightly marathons in their 600sqft studio)

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