luigidelucaaa 10 months

time for a new crush

hurdad 10 months

First week of early online German classes (b2), I haven't slept full 8 hours the whole week therefore on the weekend my body just wakeup and I slept alot. I really hope to somehow adjust my life to waking up at 07:00 because this is not gonna work out long-term:(

sierramichhh 10 months

Becoming a zara larsson baddie simply bc of the lush life dance #girlhood<3

ethana 11 months

I fear I’m giving off demon twink when I’m intending to give off nymph twunk ….which is extremely different

maxu08 11 months

Don’t you just love it when the couple at the next table thinks you can’t understand a word they’re saying? The guy was talking absolute shit about me in their language, blissfully unaware I speak it fluently. Then he starts vaping, and the smoke blows right into my face. Cute. I finish my meal, pay the bill, get up to leave, and finally turn to them. “Thanks for the kind words,* BEEP *,” I say to him. Then to his wife: “Congrats on your choice of man, Madam.” His eyes go wide. She looks like she wants to disappear into the floor. 10/10 Pure Satisfaction

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chandan 10 months

Okayyyy why i am giggling while watching heated rivalry Who’s going to be lilly to my Jane?

0beron_0restes 10 months

Soon before leaving a Saturday rave, I talked to 2 dudes who may or may not have been literal n@zis and it made me so fucking uncomfortable (I mean duh) Idk I still think about it. Spending lots of time with comforting and supporting people, sometimes makes me forget there are people like…those, and that my parents’ fears of me being assaulted for being “visibly gay” aren’t unwarranted

strawbrry 10 months

December to me means Very Merry Delta, and the return of my obsessions with a Muppet Christmas Carole & retro holiday cards

tristian 10 months

Out for 2026 Real tree camo (I will still be wearing all of mine) Salomon Xt-6s (still like em’) Situationships Espresso Martini Alo White people gochujang recipes Hard Techno Graduate School Girlboss Polyaomory Minimalism Painting everything green Gay Corporate Mullets Extra Wide Jeans

kirwin 10 months

Anyone with leads in data or tech jobs in London or Southwest England and Wales, please let me know. Or if the phrases SQL, machine learning or ETL pipeline mean anything to you and you want to be LinkedIn besties. Or if @cal needs someone who can figure out how this app works L I T E R A L L Y

southerncowrie 10 months

I’m craving tiramisu so bad right now

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tomasderico 10 months

#heatedrivalry tv show is definitely intense and cute😮‍💨 worth the watch 🫡

blessedjess 11 months

I want the kind of love where my too much is just right, where I don’t have to search for the calm or scream for affection . Where, even in our silence, I feel protected.. And even in his absence, I feel seen and cared for. He won’t treat my dreams like idle chatter or as if they lack any importance or realism. He won’t let his ego lead him and when I stray from my center, he’ll direct me back to it.

hmln_leo 10 months

Top artist to recommend on this special holiday? 💞

lax 10 months

689 Ended up not going to the club because I was tired..felt good because of that decision made

mikevi 10 months

Historical Winter Fun Fact! chimanies are suposed to be on the outside of a house Because of chimany fires. chimany catches fire, what you Were suposed to do is, throw chains around it, hook those up to horse/trucks and pull the burning chimany away from your home. it falls and burns in the yard while most of your home stays intact. just patch the hole for the night and rebuild the chimany in the morning.

southerncowrie 11 months

There’s a guy who mentions wanting to take me on a date, so I gave him my availability, told him give me a day/time/place and there’s been minimal follow through on each occasion. With me, you only get about two chances of words not lining up with actions before I become disinterested. After his second lack of follow through, I told him I’m no longer interested. He deflected by saying “You’re asking for too much”. Guess who just DM’d me and won’t be getting a reply? There’s a past version of myself that would’ve spiraled, not spoken up about the thing that bothered me and sat in discomfort with hopes that a different result would come. I’m happy to be in a place where I speak up for myself ✨

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lukeisdandy 11 months

Just saw two rats run down the alley and my first thought was, “Awww…they’re in love”. 🐁❤️🐀

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milly 11 months

When I was a kid my parents said the living room was booby trapped every Christmas so my sister and I would stay in bed until it was disarmed and to this day they refuse to say they just made it up so they could sleep in. I am 31 years old and they still are sticking to the bit that they had a series of traps that would go off and harm us if we tried to look at our gifts too early in the morning…

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aphrodite.aphroditus 10 months

The real tea: Earl Grey.

losethehjon 10 months

Whelp this place is just as intimidating as it was the first time I signed up a few years ago 😅😅

lax 10 months

687 What a day… went all the way to the workout studio to realise I didn’t book a class.. and it was full..

mrpenguin 10 months

The monday hits different today

renanalive 11 months

Meet somebody that wants to love you - not someone that needs to be loved! ❤️ I heard this today and it stuck. Wanted to pass it on. ❤️

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psaltair 10 months

there’s a change gonna come//I feel it coming in me

6nny1 10 months

Emptiness is what the nervous system constantly makes you feel when it’s learned that it’s not safe to feel your feelings. It’s also why you’re smoking an ungodly amount of weed every day because something is always better than nothing.

sub 11 months

Is this loneliness, or is it just adulthood? Or is adulthood really this lonely?

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joelleclover 10 months

Alright so since the owner of OF is a Zionist, where are content creators going instead? I’ve been thinking of starting an OF type thing for a while now. Where’s the best platform for sw creators?

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fleaskinny 10 months

You know what? Hell no

breadhubby 10 months

Phoebe bridgers wrecking havoc on my mental state once again by my own doing

jonasbv 10 months

In México we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving but wishing you all a lovely night with your loved ones 🫶🏼

jkuptwo2 10 months

I don’t flirt, I just exist and people react 💁🏼‍♀️

eyeofpsi 10 months

Are there any Biomedical Engineers on here?

jota 11 months

Un my current job I need to be online all the time to stay updated on trends and aesthetics, and I love that part. But personally, at this moment, I don’t want to be online at all. Don’t know if that makes sense.

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hamal 11 months

My husband is somewhere out there in his 30’s -40’s working on himself. I’m here baby building our empire. The universe will align us in due time

sailormars 11 months

For all the gay men out there who feel unattractive, unwanted and unloved. This is something you’ve learned, and you can unlearn it. It’s a phase, not forever. You can grow into someone you can love, and outgrow the version of you that feels unworthy of love.

loloinyourarea 10 months

where is my top dom crazy funny sunny cat lover to play video games 🐈

jama 10 months

I had to delete my social media to focus on studying and work. How do you balance being addicted to social media with real life?

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1dig0 10 months

WHAT IS REMEMBERED LIVES

jvh 10 months

I don’t think so honey, collaborations with Zara.

muffyn 10 months

No one said being an Architecture student would me easy, and that shows, but hard work pays off 💅

georgeoooo 11 months

Why do good things happen to bad people. I’ve been talking to this guys I really like and we were going to meet up and he cancelled and now he’s ghosting me. I’m feeling so much stuff rn someone help me understand 🙏

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something_sharpe 10 months

I fear this year is the least interested in Christmas I’ve ever been.

blessedjess 11 months

You know inside that they don’t deserve your energy But you ask yourself, “who does?” You dear. You deserve all of your energy at the moment.

mikevi 10 months

I know not everyone likes or enjoys this time of the year because of the festivities, but i hope everyone has a pleasant month! pepermint icecream is in season!!

oandreoliveiracosta 10 months

Loved to see all your original crop pics 😏 DM open

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j.w 10 months

I need a drink and card game in a pub. 🍺🍷🃏

leo.nardo.r 10 months

I need new Pokémon friends

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hamal 10 months

Wrap me in your arms again The adrenaline makes me shiver Show me that you're genuine, that I'm safe again That you came here different No time to define, but before we get closer I ask if you love me, and you just, won't you just -Obsessed with this song 😩

halfpersianboy 11 months

story time, rare toxic edition i experience here on collective: i received an unsolicited 🍆 pic here (weeks ago) via a dm, i reported him and no update has ever been shared with me - he still has his account active (and others may’ve potetially experienced the same) how does the moderation work? and how is enforcing the community guidelines ensured on here, @cal?

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jax.jack_ 11 months

never let me download a dating app ever again, why do straight men think i want to match with them? -_-

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