nico-laos 10 months

everything it’s just so terrible rn. I miss him, I miss us.. worst christmas ever

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jbenjamin 10 months

Do you think when you die you get to see who starred you on Grindr?

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mauriciflo 10 months

Decretando ir al concierto de Bad Bunny la siguiente semana 🤞🏽

blessedjess 10 months

we let ourselves go and then gaslight ourselves into thinking we can’t ever let ourselves back in.

bryan-tino 10 months

I just learnt about attachment styles in-depth today and boy oh boy do i have stuff to work through.

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primo 10 months

my dad told me he doesn’t care that i like men for the first time - it was healing

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jhonnatansc 10 months

Maybe Both I don’t know if I lost or I won, perhaps it was both. Because I gave, I broke, I learned— and somehow, I became more whole. I stopped pretending it didn’t hurt, and started being honest. I faced myself, quietly, and saw who I was beneath it all. People are good— I still believe that. But sometimes, we’re just not good to each other. And that’s okay. Because from it, I learned that kindness isn’t weakness, and forgiveness is freedom. The wound remains, but it’s not pain anymore— it’s proof. Proof that I fell, I grew, and that life’s biggest lessons don’t come from winning, but from finding peace in both.

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pcap 10 months

Welp, haven’t had any luck meeting anyone on here.

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thefabiolous2000 10 months

Heated Rivalry is healing the gay world!

aphrodite.aphroditus 10 months

“If you think I make you gay, you probably are” -Gay · Ve'ondre

gavinakagriffin. 10 months

Life update: I’m getting back into exercise for a cosplay, for a upcoming Comic Con. Any guesses on the cosplay, with that information. Other hints. Comic Book character. Character is originally from Bludhaven in comics. Parents were💥 in a 🎪.

niccoloserratt 10 months

I love creative men with big tits I can rest my head upon when my brain becomes mush. ~Shakespeare

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rottingcolours 10 months

Have you ever actually made a friend from this app? I feel like it’s mostly a profile collector… if so—how? ☔️

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ivypilled 10 months

Should I be a little gay boy or a lesbian for christmas this year

zayn 10 months

sorry guys, all u get for now is a new pfp, i need to study neuro, BYE

lax 10 months

681 Spend whole day running around just to get a coat for my dog… fashion clearly is vital in my life 😅

_mattepio_ 10 months

I need to know why every woman and man I see on this app are hot af 🫠🫠 I can’t anymore

doryan_grey 10 months

Interesting app so far, but I hope the algorithm adjusts after a while, the default recommendations are veeery caucasian and twink-y.

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moonshadow 10 months

Why couldn’t have humans already evolved past the point of having wisdom teeth I fucking hate it here

crtrlnx 10 months

my spotify wrapped just said "bitch you depressed" and left it at that

strawbrry 10 months

lighting incense every day 🕯️

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cyril 10 months

Hai detto che eri occupato a far girare il pianeta, e io ti ho creduto. Sono davvero impazzito così tanto?

strawbrry 10 months

how have you gotten through intense grief?

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shawnmendes 10 months

Quick vulnerable post: As much as I love living in San Francisco, one of the things about living in a transient city like SF is just how quickly your friends will get up and move away. Think I’ve had like 7 friends in the last 3 months decide to move to NYC or elsewhere. And another 2-3 are moving away in January 2026. Like I still have a handful of friends here that I am grateful for and I’m mostly comfortable being alone and what not but man… it starting to feel lonely not gonna lie 😭. When I’m out walking around and I see groups of people hanging out doing fun activities together, having dinners and what not, I do get a little jealous because I’m watching my circle is shrink with each day. And despite what people say, it’s lowkey hard to make new genuine friends, at least in my experience. Sorry for the long post but just needed somewhere to get out these thoughts.

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tgcowles 10 months

somebody please tell me i don’t need to bleach my hair again

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hamal 10 months

Him: “Why me when you can have anyone you want.” Me: There are so many options but I’m going to choose you every time.😜

mostwanted 10 months

Let’s trade peppermint flavored chapstick

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avatar.isaac 10 months

popped 3 zyns everything is okay now

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jkuptwo2 10 months

UNAPOLOGETIC era energy only.

studiokervo 10 months

Nothing gives the ick faster than seeing your partner getting rejected by other people in their attempts to cheat. now I don’t want you either😂

theefreshprince 10 months

Heated Rivalry was definitely a fun read

alexist1998 10 months

Always wanna try acting but too scared and don’t know how to start…

sierramichhh 10 months

Heated rivalry I can’t take this😫😫😫😫

breadhubby 10 months

Can't wait to attend Ethel's concert im soooooooo excited

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psaltair 10 months

speak louder than me (ik you will)

breadhubby 10 months

This song feels like someone is caressing through the crevices of my brain

jayda.awright 10 months

I’m. So. Tired

datboi_ash 10 months

Any idea when is ep 4 of heated rivalry will be out in California time 😭

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soupwaylee 10 months

it saddens/shocks me how music, too, is simply math and physics 🫠

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sierramichhh 10 months

Happy to report I will NOT be sleeping in my contacts tonight 😌

allegedly.gus 10 months

If everyone is DL trade… is anyone really DL trade?

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azam 10 months

It sounds stupid, but I'm still waiting for a message, even though I told you to "leave me alone"

itsjacobedmonds 10 months

Just sent a risky text, wish me luck!

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cal 10 months

Best / gayest NYE parties in Melbourne? Or general fun queer things in Naarm…? 💬📥

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hehiminbloom 10 months

To come out or Not to come out That is the question That is ALWAYS the question I don’t know how much longer I can deal with being dead named and misgendered by family

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uoneto 10 months

8 hour work days should legit come with two full meals they have to provide for you

niccoloserratt 10 months

“You might like” YES I LIKE. OF COURSE I DO.

sailormars 10 months

What limitations are you letting go off this year?

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carasrimas 10 months

I had an early Xmas 🎄 dinner and watched a classic early-2000s romantic Xmas movie with my bestie before the holiday. RN I’m in bed listening to early-2000s emo songs ;( 💤💚

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