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Trying to work out to get out of my head, but some days it just doesn’t work
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Thoughts on the new Harry Potter HBO series and the controversy around JK and anti-trans women movement? Will you watch it anyways?
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Where do I Begin? If my words sheltered your heart, And my art blinded the world. Couldn’t we stay this way, Never giving more than we choose. Bringing back the tears in my eyes, And the smile I painfully denied. It isn’t each rose but the very last petal, It shouldn’t be the last straw just the first sip. I couldn’t bare the tall tales, But I knew it would be a quick end.
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hey little gay people. This weekend is going to be rough for me. Tell me a little about yourselves.
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Am I the only one who's damn well terrified of World War III and a gigantic economic crisis? Are all the people out there asleep? We're dealing with religious fanatics here...
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you pity the moth confusing a lamp for the moon, yet here you are confusing a screen for the world — Jay Alto
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the heart is heavy but it's mine to carry
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How do you get over someone you have incredibly strong feelings for and can’t stop thinking about but they don’t feel the same? 😬
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Calling all pierced freaks - where do you buy your jewelry? In desperate need of a replacement for my conch, septum, and nostril. Titanium or stainless steel only plss
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"Whiteness is invisible and unmarked, as the absent centre against which others appear only as deviants, or points of deviation" (Dyer, 1997; Frankenberg, 1993, cited in Ahmed, 2007, p. 157).
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you can't fuck the future if the future is fucking you
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My life is full in so many ways—creative, expansive, exciting. But I really value what romance adds to it. I miss that feeling. I miss being met, being chosen, being in something that feels intentional and alive. I don’t need love to complete my life, but I deeply enjoy who I am when I’m experiencing it. So I think the only thing I’m holding onto right now is this: I hope my heart stays open and ready to receive it when it finds me again.
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Has anyone found success using OutClose (formerly Gayborhood)? Getting dinners with potential new friends. I my first coming up soon. How was your experience? Did you feel “matched” well?
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I know it’s a bit exaggerating but i decided to call the posting shit post a hit post
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I’m curious, what are your hobbies?
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Idek why but my favourite video on YouTube is that Tom cruise Scientology video with the guitar riff from mission impossible playing on repeat and him just making no fucking sense the entire time. Like flat out just a 10 minute fever dream. I’ve watched it so many times
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This summer I’m making my best effort to take in every moment, revel in the memories that are being created. The world has felt so disconnected to me over the course of the last few years & I’m yearning for the joy that used to come so naturally. Does anyone else relate, especially since the pandemic?
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“I make my ramen the way a friend taught me in eleventh grade. Every fall, I listen to a playlist made for me by a boy l drove across a border to hook up with. I eat sushi because a girl who won’t talk to me anymore made me try it, and Indian food because my best friend’s parents ordered for me before I knew what I liked. There are movies I love because someone I loved loved them first. I am a mosaic of everyone I’ve ever loved, even for a heartbeat.”
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🎹 piano players & enjoyers out here: What are your favorite pieces to play or listen to? Looking for inspiration across all genres, nieche classical composers etc.
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he had me at “I have an RTX 5090”
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Hooked on FF XIV Online. Who here plays? (PS5 here)
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en esta vida todo viene y va y luego nada es para tanto y cuando el mundo se vaya a acabar lo observaré tomando algo
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Getting nutted in can’t be your whole personality sis
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Have I just come to the realisation love is not looking for me? I feel like love is not finding me, so would that mean that love is not for me? My whole life I’ve given so much love to people, so caring and loving but I have never had that back.
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I know I’m in trouble when the person I’ve been hanging out with who doesn’t wear cologne or any scents smell good to me. That’s when I know to block their number.
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Holy shxt u guys, Kanye’s Bully album is good AF 🤯
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hi guys it’s been awhile
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Clocking now that the newest microtrend will be “hannah montana core”
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Can they please stop remaking everything ? For the love of GOD bro. Everyone like “OMG did you see they’re making a new xfiles/buffy” I don’t give a FUCK bro I don’t WANT MORE OF IT I LOVE HOW IT IS AS ITS OWN THING FROM ITS ERA I LOVE MEDIA SHOT ON PHYSICAL FILM I LOVE OLD AUDIO RECORDING QUALITY I LOVE THE FAINT BUZZING IN THE BACKGROUND AND THE BAD SPECIAL EFFECTS AND THE GOOD PRACTICAL EFFECTS AND THE OLD FASHION AND OLD PHONES AND OUTDATED REFERENCES
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si pagar no es poseer, piratear no es robar.
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No bc why does your vape need to tell you your horoscope…it gets to a point
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A guy told me I’m his type but my hair can be a turn off for him. Is long hair a turn off for you?
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‘Pillion’ was the most problematic movie I’ve seen in a long time. A portrayal of a non-consensual, abusive relationship, disguised as a kink relationship.. what a let down honestly.
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I’m convinced all hot girls have IBS, low iron, and depression
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What dating apps is everyone using/Favorites these days? Thinking about getting back on them but……spooky 🫣
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Opinions on what ends up happening to people with xenophobic beliefs?
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which is the most extroverted fruit among them all and why is it the banana?
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If I flirt with you, please cooperate
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Just saw my first person wearing a maga hat in Toronto. What are we doing y'all 🤦‍♀️
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You know it’s a good one when it makes you cry at the beginning. The book.
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What are you most proud of in your life?
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there are few things i hate more than preparing a CV. EW
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any veteran bottoms that have become fully fledged tops or some other position out there?
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"the winter solstice might be the shortest day of the year but i think it's the biggest sunrise of the year. it's symbolic for all the sunrises that come after." —ólafur arnalds
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Nothing like going to work on a Tuesday knowing that you’re going out with your partner later today 😌
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If im being real, most men’s fragrance stinks imo. Especially when layered wrong 🤮
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Unpopular opinion maybe, but can the gays stop gaslighting me into believing the Heated Rivalry guys are the gold standard of hot men
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