ricardof014 7 months

still find it shocking the looks I get when I am speaking in german in the US…..as a latino living in the US. Like „ja digga, ich kann deutsch sprechen. Kein grund zu starren” 🫠🫠

drumstick_0428 7 months

Me and my wife want kids so bad but we have no one to ask to fulfill that dream, so now we decide to just try and find a decent looking loyal gay bestie that would be willing to help! Anyone interested?

jarrodt83 7 months

How many days a week do you go to the gym? And generally how long are your sessions?

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andyjo 8 months

is anyone else starting to think perfection is boring?

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sierramichhh 7 months

A psychic told me I feel like someone has wronged me and that I have an enemy near…..

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marco 7 months

I dreamed of you holding me tightly, but it was only sunlight reaching me in bed through the open curtains.

abadieeee 7 months

Litterally can’t stand my new manager at work... what do you guys do to avoid the intrusive urge to strangle them? Open to suggestions thank you

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staige 7 months

Looking for a wife ✂️🤝👩🏼‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏻‼️

giving-mildly-impressive 7 months

Need a pair of new pillows, ones that are firm,hard and bounce on command 🤭

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sailormars 7 months

Don’t be ashamed to be beautiful, don’t be ashamed to be kind, don’t be ashamed to be yourself. You don’t owe anyone anything, stop acting like you owe shame to people. Embrace the beautiful being you are, and create the most wonderful life for yourself. There’s no debt to be paid here, just a life to be lived.

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iosonoriver 7 months

"I'm coming to the cottage" (is what I want to hear someone say)

matic 7 months

Vinyl collectors - what are the best online stores?

sailormars 7 months

Breadcrumb recognition 101 If someone is approaching you and isn’t making it clear that they’re interested in you… breadcrumb.

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dayegee 7 months

“"I live in the realm of the senses." What an odd thing to say. Later that night, home in bed, I considered what he'd meant. The senses are pure experience, I decided; there is no sense for how things seem, which is what matters to the superficial.” — Holly Brickley, Deep Cuts: a novel (2025)

dylpickles 7 months

T4T is magical 🤍🩷🩵

paul_apolinario 7 months

It hit me the other night Sleepless, I can't get you out of my mind Fantasy of danger, yeah, I like the design Know what I want is to ride, having a crush, ain't a crime

luke_vieira 7 months

For some reason my last post is randomly getting a lot of attention. Hairy legs are really that powerful, huh? Damn 😂

sierramichhh 8 months

Im tired of fighting people at the gym to not step on/use MY yoga mat….it looks obviously different from the gym mats yet your first thought is “oh!! Let me walk all over it with my dirty sneakers!!!” I should rock ur shit fr

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giving-mildly-impressive 8 months

Any gut wrenching sad movies recommendations? I’m trying to bawl my eyes out and rethink life…

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bran.don 7 months

Mercury Retrograde: Feeling so much but yet nothing at all.

sierramichhh 7 months

Had my first chopped cheese yesterday…and again today….and probably tomorrow too🤤🤤😍

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sierramichhh 7 months

I don’t think its a coincidence at all that I had the WORST most traumatic nightmare filled with turnoil and chaos….and then wake up to being in WW3

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avatar.isaac 7 months

Checking in on my fellow Virgos. How we holding up?

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paul_apolinario 7 months

The only thing more powerful than hate is love

autumnexpected 7 months

Waiting to recover from eye surgery is a frustrating process. Glad I did it but bored haha

milly 8 months

I’ve been just freely telling literally anyone when I’m on my period for years. Like yeah if I’d tell a cis male coworker that I had a headache they’re also hearing about my cramps, I don’t give a fuck.

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joeey 7 months

Casting call for any London based models! Hit me up and DM me if you’re interested - it’s a paid shoot, modelling jewellery (check out my profile to get an idea). Happy to chat more if you’ve got any questions at all!

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tempson 7 months

I keep sprinkling sumac on everything. It’s so sour but good.

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sam2bh 8 months

i do fear that as a bi man in a hetero relationship i still won’t be accepted by the gay community which is kinda sad

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chandan 7 months

Lol Imagine rage-baiting yourself with imaginary scenarios and then losing sleep over it. Definitely me 👀😳

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lav 7 months

Tom Fords new collection is a sensual haven! 🤤 Haider is such a master tailor 👌

fidalpw 7 months

finally starting fellow travelers 😫

sailormars 7 months

If you struggle with body image or confidence use this tools. I’ve used them in my journey of self improvement and I feel more joyful about life. 1) the job of your emotions it’s to protect you, be kind to them. 2) look at life like a video game, the bosses of the game are your emotional attachments. 3) shame is one of the hardest bosses to beat in the game, the antidote for the poison of shame is Joy. Move your body, express yourself, and remember that no one can shame you. Life has been given to you

andyj 7 months

Six Nations final - six teams in short shorts. What other good moments were there?

badis 7 months

When he blocks me cause he realizes I’m not a slave to US propaganda and Imperialism, #goodriddance

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ryeryewhy 7 months

whenever this song comes on, it never gets skipped. most times it’s repeated. do you have a song/s like that?

lax 7 months

586 Feels like whenever I am at work, the weather becomes bright and sunny

milly 7 months

Told my coworker my fave 3 movies and he goes “well I can tell you’re a feminist”

milly 7 months

Coconut and vanilla scents. Squeeze tube lip gloss. Glitter. Powder blue eyeshadow. The sound of layered jewellery when someone moves.

lav 8 months

I experience deep physical and mental discomfort when I’m talking to someone and find out they believe in organized religion.

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londen 7 months

told oomf I had a taste for a caramel macchiato today and he said that’s so “millennial” of me

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brad 8 months

Handed in my notice today after one month. Teaching is one of the most confronting and mentally challenging jobs I’ve ever experienced. It is definitely not for me.

sirkooala 7 months

WHOS READY FOR SCARY MOVIE 6?!?! 🍿🍿

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lax 7 months

598 After keeping an eye out for the pokemon museum, finally got the tickets for them 🥺

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rrccvrdo 7 months

the day anna wintour has zero haters means I will be dead

lav 8 months

So I have this handsome older Italian doctor, also a fellow gay man and whenever I see him we just both giggle at eachother while I have my eyes glued to his huge biceps 👀 I feel like I should compliment them…

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southerncowrie 8 months

Just got the pictures from a photoshoot I did last month, shared them with friends and we all cried😭 the support from them has been so lovely. Modeling as a side quest was not on my 2026 bingo card but yay

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lynx 7 months

Can’t wait to wake up tomorrow. Even if it’ll be early. Formula 1 is so worth it getting up before 6 on a Saturday. And before 5 on Sunday haha

simba 8 months

so I have been dating this guy for quite a lot, I like him and I like spending my time with him but I think I’m not developing any romantic feelings for him and I don’t see them coming, so I’m gonna meet him now and tell him how I feel. i’m so scared of hurting him or breaking his heart, but I really don’t see how I can keep going and pushing something that I don’t see coming… I’m scared he’ll feel used by me. Argh

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kraynor98 7 months

Happy International Womens Day!!! 🥳🎀🌎

strawbrry 8 months

if the Epstein files are triggering your PTSD symptoms and churning up adolescent trauma you’re not alone ❤️‍🩹❤️ these heinous acts seek to isolate us but they can never take away our solidarity and compassion for each other’s suffering. I love you and I’m grateful to have you standing beside me in the fight for justice ❤️🫂 we have NOTHING to be ashamed of.

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