lilian_vltgr 9 months

Hey beautiful people! What inspired you last week !?

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avatar.isaac 9 months

the way the US just decided to do away with the only brown coin instead of increasing its value to what it’s truly worth says something

justinclu 9 months

Hosted a 35 person Friendsgiving and lived to tell the tale

hehiminbloom 9 months

How does one form their own aesthetic? I feel like a ball of random vibes

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joshualight 8 months

like this if you think I’m cute 👹

avatar.isaac 9 months

I came to NYC thinking I didn’t know how to cook, however in reality my mother’s recipes were all in my head. Now, I’ve been making dishes from childhood that I completely forget about

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nico-laos 9 months

I’m happily overwhelmed by the support I got after opening my self about being single after years of relationship. Your stories inspired me so much and I really do feel better. Thank you💐❤️

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muffyn 9 months

I’m cliché in the sense that I want movie love, the type where a guy buys your flowers, or brings you lunch at work just to see you, takes you out to star gaze and shows you constellation, or something like that 🤷🏻‍♀️💅

serenawilliams 9 months

i know i probably have mental health problems and possibly even drug addiction to the point where i likely need professional help BUT it’s 20:20 and this is the first time alcohol popped into my head at all today and i find that to be such a good sign. i’m also about to hit nine days drug and alcohol free.

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tofubrat 8 months

Being a December Sagittarius is such a blessing hehe

lukeisdandy 8 months

If you don’t want to get bumped on the dance floor, stay off it.

kulbs 9 months

Show me your floof.

alvo 9 months

Comment with an emoji and I’ll write a poem for you 👇🏽

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serenawilliams 9 months

11 days sober and tonight the craving is unreal. like literally having to zone out of flashbacks of the last time i smoked. even the 5 second flashbacks feel so good. my blood pressure drops tenfold. this is fucking scary.

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s.owen 9 months

i have a photos folder with 3,600+ pics in it labeled “everyday beauty.” considering diving in and posting some here…

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nico-laos 9 months

ok first two weeks being single. How can life be good again after loving a person so much?

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sailormars 9 months

What’s the biggest misconception gay men have about loving another men?

lax 9 months

697 By some kinda fate, received a text the moment I arrived at his spot. Surprised me to hear his voice again.

lax 8 months

687 Took a long bath and soaked myself in my own filth… So relaxing..

avatar.isaac 9 months

got to my childhood home and my mother asked me if i was going to make my juice, “well yes” 😌

sailormars 9 months

Journaling prompt: Were you raised for autonomy or loyalty?

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sailormars 9 months

Journaling prompt of the week: Who would you be if what you desired already happened? Then act as if it already did and let the experience come to you

aphrodite.aphroditus 8 months

somatic adjective so·mat·ic sō-ˈma-tik sə- 1 : of, relating to, or affecting the body especially as distinguished from the germplasm

curated_by_marc 9 months

“To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that’s all.” —Oscar Wilde

luisteran 9 months

Does anyone know where could I buy fabrics online? (pls help)

jcp 9 months

Part from the corny Hallmarks Xmas movies, what are the movies you watch every Christmas ? The ones that embody the Xmas spirit ?

bazakht 8 months

Is this app just filled with even more performative gay white guys already?…

southerncowrie 9 months

Chat, I need to finalize my karaoke lineup for my friend’s bday party tonight. So far this is what we have: Sweet Thing, Rufus ft Chaka Khan Ring the Alarm, Beyoncé Loyalty, Kendrick/Rihanna Tia Tamera, Doja Cat When I See U, Fantasia Little Lies, Fleetwood Mac Deja Vu, Beyoncé/Jay-Z

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psaltair 8 months

yk……..i’m stronger than I think

milly 9 months

Should I release my watched list at the end of the year ?

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lax 9 months

695 Been thinking about how I wanna use my time…what deserves my attention, what should I focus on…what do I want to achieve for myself..

clownpup 9 months

seen this guy twice now and both times we have not only made love but he’s made me feel so seen and heard when it comes to intimacy and honestly i love it over here

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clownpup 8 months

need more fat and chubby men on my tl, fat and chubby men HIIII ILYYYY MWAH MWAH

itsjacobedmonds 9 months

Today’s mental image: The shower scene in Heated Rivalry 🚿🔥

rainbowwarrior 9 months

Any pointers on liking someone 2500 miles away

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princeadam 9 months

We started to ask each other basic questions. I always lie. (No bad intentions but because there are mo expectations.) We hugged chest to chest. His head was on my arm. His scent was very masculine. His eyes have some wrinkles when he smiles. (I liked these details) We hugged about 2 hours and then we fell asleep. It feels so familiar. Someone I know for long time. A new Love ?

beachbum 9 months

can you guys recommend a book that had a big impact on your life

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danivalentin 9 months

Something about texting here feels nice. Like a notebook, but shared. Poetic its my preferred alterego here ajaja. Not for long though🤭

die 8 months

find what you love and become obsessed with it.

virgo 9 months

My ex told me that his (poly) partner is going to be on the next season of love island? Not fully sure what am I supposed to do with this information so I’m posting it on Collective

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bryan-tino 8 months

Dear Santa, I just want a boyfriend that snowboards & would be down to go on ski trips with me. Or friends. I’ll take either or both. Sincerely, Your Bestest Boy

milly 9 months

I wasn’t allowed to watch movies from when I was 6-12 years old. Which was fine. Whatever. What I will say tho is that when you don’t have the nostalgia aspect attached to it a LOT of the media you grew up with is like really not that good. Like fully not interesting to watch when you come into it as an adult with no emotional connection to it.

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chanelapee 8 months

Collective gives tumblr, and for that we Stan 😍❤️🙈

lax 8 months

688 Had a work chat today, and it was the usual blah dadida blehblehbleh.. had to stop myself from rolling my eyes so many times

breadhubby 9 months

"I am aware of your absence as deeply as I am of your presence, my love doesn't sleep." -Simone de Beauvoir

thatonelankyboy 9 months

Yesterday was a good volleyball day 😌 (my back is dead tho but nothing comes for free)

donovan.dona 8 months

that's so girl wearing a skirt as a top

kalelder 8 months

Morning boys! Have a great Sunday.

lax 9 months

698 Need to get back to using pastels… been pushing it back for a while and remembered it’s something that I enjoy rather much

serenawilliams 9 months

10 days drug and alcohol free.

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theboyisbeautiful 9 months

‘The moustache is the f@ggot’s veil’ is an old-fashioned Greek expression used in the 1960s, echoing the proverb ‘the cassock doesn’t make the priest.’ The moustache, as is well known, was considered a marker of swagger and masculine pride. A man without a moustache was barely considered a Man at all. So, according to the saying, anyone who isn’t truly a man in essence should at least look like one. Save a fag, f*ck a mustache.

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