breadhubby 7 months

Can't wait to attend Ethel's concert im soooooooo excited

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tristian 6 months

Out for 2026 Real tree camo (I will still be wearing all of mine) Salomon Xt-6s (still like em’) Situationships Espresso Martini Alo White people gochujang recipes Hard Techno Graduate School Girlboss Polyaomory Minimalism Painting everything green Gay Corporate Mullets Extra Wide Jeans

hehiminbloom 7 months

To come out or Not to come out That is the question That is ALWAYS the question I don’t know how much longer I can deal with being dead named and misgendered by family

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sailormars 7 months

What limitations are you letting go off this year?

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soupwaylee 7 months

it saddens/shocks me how music, too, is simply math and physics 🫠

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kings_world 6 months

If men are trash I’m a stupid raccoon

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sierramichhh 7 months

Happy to report I will NOT be sleeping in my contacts tonight 😌

lax 7 months

685 Skipped workout classes today, instead opt to do some chores and stayed in… I kinda like having the whole day to just rest up

avery-ren 7 months

Going through my grandparents house I just found medicine that expired in 1999…

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victor_chma 7 months

Give these boys hell

sierramichhh 7 months

Heated rivalry I can’t take this😫😫😫😫

uoneto 7 months

8 hour work days should legit come with two full meals they have to provide for you

soupwaylee 7 months

i think leftover oats that dried in a bowl might be the toughest material known to humankind (on earth)

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aphrodite.aphroditus 6 months

The real tea: Earl Grey.

aphrodite.aphroditus 7 months

It’s 4 am and I’m still working on a PowerPoint I swore was going to take me a couple hours at most. It’s been 7 hours. *breaks fourth wall—stares into camera.

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aphrodite.aphroditus 6 months

My hot take: double-spaced is ugly.

itsjacobedmonds 7 months

Just sent a risky text, wish me luck!

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gabellaquita 6 months

there’s so many aesthetic handsome men on here….idk how yall curate your photos so nicely 😭

nate 7 months

just went down a rabbit hole of taste, luxury, colonialism, capitalism, zionism, socialism, and communism with my conservative right-wing uncle

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travellingfive 7 months

Just watched Heated Rivalry and Hudson Williams was incredibly good on the 2nd episode when he was talking to Ilya about when did his english get so good. Find a man that looks at you the way Shane looks at Ilya.

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eyeofpsi 7 months

For my artist, After you release a song do you ever find it hard to promote/listen to, cause you’ve already listened to it hundreds of times? It feels like every time I put out work, especially a body of work I’m so done with it. It feels like shedding skin and it’s an old version of me.

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mrpenguin 6 months

The monday hits different today

bex 7 months

So elated to have passed my driving test today. Can’t believe it’s doneeeee! 🥳🥳🥳

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pushkarovych 6 months

anyone wants to watch heated rivalry together ? 🙈

avatar.isaac 7 months

I’m just learning that Harry Styles fumbled Olivia Dean; never forget your worth just because someone doesn’t see it

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waterverga 7 months

una vez más, si saben de algún trabajo relacionado con diseño de mobiliario/carpinteria en Barcelona, soy todo oídos once again, if you know of any jobs related to furniture design/carpentry in Barcelona, i’m all ears 👹🌞

thatonelankyboy 7 months

Y’all ever been pissed at someone you’ve barely ever spoken to?

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toimoiaussi_ 7 months

My Experience With German Education So I just finished a 41-page lab report. Yes, forty-one pages. For one Strömungsmechanik lab. Not a thesis, not a research paper, not a plea for a PhD scholarship — just a regular assignment apparently? German universities are wild. They don’t want you to simply understand the experiment — they want a full scientific encyclopedia: calculations, diagrams, DIN formatting, uncertainty analysis, literature comparison, symbol directory, Kontrollfragen, and original raw data like you’re publishing groundbreaking work for the United Nations. Instructions? None. Templates? Absolutely not. Just the classic: “Hier ist die Aufgabe. Viel Erfolg.” Translation: Good luck, warrior. Try not to cry. The emotional journey is beautiful: start confident, slowly descend into madness, rewrite everything three times at 3 AM, question life choices, google “how to drop out,” then somehow finish. Now I’m exhausted, brain-dead, but still weirdly proud. Because if you survive German education — you survive anything. 💅💅💅

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clownpup 7 months

the way it’s been hypothesized that the reason dating apps are so frustrating to use now is because of covid and how it’s fucked up everyone’s brain and reduced empathy and us as humans being able to make connections with others and be in tact with our emotions and caring about others and being able to be committed to people in a long term communication way instead of the usual text for a few days / weeks then they disappear like oh so im not losing my mind, everyone on dating apps really is just annoying and horrific to talk to now and it’s only gonna get worse cause nobody masks and the us is headed in a dark dark direction so everyone’s gonna keep catching covid and worse things like ah alright well, can’t say im surprised 🙂‍↔️

antmadonna 7 months

I love how this app is made not to exclude us!! Most apps I feel like are spewing negativity so I’m so happy your all here <333

luisteran 7 months

after procrastinating it for like 3 months, i finally started drawing the portraits of people (the post i made a little while ago)

unboxitabe 7 months

Who was your top 5 artist this year?

strawbrry 7 months

a light in my heart has gone out 💔 I lost one of the great loves of my life last week. I love and miss you more than words could ever say, yui 🌌

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joshualight 7 months

how are the gays doing out in the world this fine evening???

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sierramichhh 7 months

Becoming a zara larsson baddie simply bc of the lush life dance #girlhood<3

enigmattic 7 months

I’ve had one of those weeks where I’m scared to check my bank accounts

helloitsgui 7 months

How do you people make new friends in London? Like friends, not acquaintances

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mikevi 7 months

Historical Winter Fun Fact! chimanies are suposed to be on the outside of a house Because of chimany fires. chimany catches fire, what you Were suposed to do is, throw chains around it, hook those up to horse/trucks and pull the burning chimany away from your home. it falls and burns in the yard while most of your home stays intact. just patch the hole for the night and rebuild the chimany in the morning.

hawkanderson 7 months

“Family holidays” To the gays who dont have family I see you babe. We have other days that we celebrate. Be kind to yourself during this time. We are loved <3

leoiswho 7 months

These bright headlights are getting out of control! I’m so close to wearing sunglasses for night driving 😭😫

6nny1 6 months

Emptiness is what the nervous system constantly makes you feel when it’s learned that it’s not safe to feel your feelings. It’s also why you’re smoking an ungodly amount of weed every day because something is always better than nothing.

6nny1 7 months

Just as important it is to have friends that uplift you I also think it’s important to have friends that remind you that you really aren’t the main character. Some people will live much more lavish lives, much crazier lives, and much more interesting lives than you in general, and i think it’s important to keep these people close because yeah you can draw inspiration from them but they also keep you grounded in a way that can’t exist when you think you’re the main character. Food for thought :3

luigidelucaaa 7 months

time for a new crush

toimoiaussi_ 7 months

Style and music are structurally connected — whether it’s rap, punk, electronic, or anything born from rebellion. All these genres function as identity systems. In cultural theory, fashion is non-verbal communication; music is linguistic and sonic resistance. Before a single word or note hits, the visual language arrives first. Neuroscience proves we process appearance faster than meaning, so an outfit becomes the first message. That’s why artists like Omote or Yuki Chiba don’t just wear clothes — they construct a visual manifesto. Silhouette, proportion, texture, distortion: these are psychological tools, not decoration. Rap, punk, and experimental music all rewrite social order instead of obeying it. So let’s end this pathetic narrative that we should care what others think. Why let people with zero identity and zero cultural literacy decide what is “acceptable”? Their discomfort is just a fear response. Real style and real music say: I define myself. If that threatens them — good. That’s evolution.

psychedelicprince 7 months

many of us take antidepressants because being gay is devastating.

bryan-tino 7 months

We need a gay escrow service. You both front some money & whoever ghosts the other loses. Idk

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kirwin 7 months

Anyone with leads in data or tech jobs in London or Southwest England and Wales, please let me know. Or if the phrases SQL, machine learning or ETL pipeline mean anything to you and you want to be LinkedIn besties. Or if @cal needs someone who can figure out how this app works L I T E R A L L Y

toimoiaussi_ 7 months

What would you like to see more? 🥺 🖤 Places 🖤 Me 🖤 Aesthetic

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0beron_0restes 7 months

Soon before leaving a Saturday rave, I talked to 2 dudes who may or may not have been literal n@zis and it made me so fucking uncomfortable (I mean duh) Idk I still think about it. Spending lots of time with comforting and supporting people, sometimes makes me forget there are people like…those, and that my parents’ fears of me being assaulted for being “visibly gay” aren’t unwarranted

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