milly 7 months

When I was in primary school did belly dancing classes (instead of ballet ig idk I stuck with it for years tho)

unboxitabe 7 months

SO how was the thanksgiving drama this year?

thotanist 7 months

Booked my next tattoo 😌😌😌

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hurdad 7 months

First week of early online German classes (b2), I haven't slept full 8 hours the whole week therefore on the weekend my body just wakeup and I slept alot. I really hope to somehow adjust my life to waking up at 07:00 because this is not gonna work out long-term:(

benvstheuniverse 6 months

second time going to destin conrad’s concert and seeing handsome men, second time not doing anything about it 😭😭

cchristophrr 7 months

Furnishing a new apartment where are good places to buy pieces from?

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tomasderico 7 months

#heatedrivalry tv show is definitely intense and cute😮‍💨 worth the watch 🫡

alvo 7 months

For the first time I felt uncomfortable for being in a space with no diversity and no one else like me. And weird stares from people. Still I’m privileged, as I wasn’t facing any real danger or hate. Absolutely no one should be felt like they’re less of a valuable person only for being different. I don’t know how this being so simple is so hard to see. 💔

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psaltair 7 months

there’s a change gonna come//I feel it coming in me

chandan 7 months

Okayyyy why i am giggling while watching heated rivalry Who’s going to be lilly to my Jane?

sailormars 7 months

Reminder: You get to. You get to wake up, you get to choose your outfit, you get to live your life. You get to let go of your limitations and become who you want to be.

southerncowrie 7 months

I’m craving tiramisu so bad right now

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losethehjon 7 months

Whelp this place is just as intimidating as it was the first time I signed up a few years ago 😅😅

fawn 7 months

how do you gay men deal with feeling unattractive or having low self worth? is this any different to how straight people might feel sometimes? (asking for a friend…

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jkuptwo2 7 months

I don’t flirt, I just exist and people react 💁🏼‍♀️

kalil.garcia 7 months

This year, I reached my goal of reading 17 books - which I’m very proud of 🥳 I’m going to periodically post some of the books I read this year, but in the meantime: I would love if anyone and everyone could comment their favorite book or a book that really moved them! If it’s LGBTQIA+, then that’s even better!

luca995 7 months

Who thinks it would be cool to organise like an LGBTQ retreat?

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avatar.isaac 7 months

ngl I think I like some of my things stupid. Like yes. Let me manually open my door. Thank you very much 😤

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vctor 7 months

Have y’all ever met someone who just weighs the room down? It’s such a strange feeling, like my whole body reacts before my mind catches up. The arrogance of some people doesn't deserve my peace of mind, nor my presence. It throws me off balance. I step back, breathe and choose balance. I’ve been intentionally learning it. Feelings I just need to put out of my system {nº 1}.

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luke_vieira 7 months

At the gym rn. I really want to eat a big fat greasy McDonald’s burger. Help

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strawbrry 7 months

about to be a terror on Letterboxd

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shawnmendes 7 months

Yeah I watched the first two episodes of Heated Rivalry and at one point I thought about turning it off. Not because I thought it was bad or anything, but because I felt like I was intruding and wanted to give them some privacy. Cause like DAMN 😂

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_mattepio_ 7 months

Yesterday I have seen a beautiful show at the theatre 🎭 and the actor my goodness he was great, a shame that I couldn’t get pictures

hmln_leo 7 months

Top artist to recommend on this special holiday? 💞

blessedjess 7 months

I want the kind of love where my too much is just right, where I don’t have to search for the calm or scream for affection . Where, even in our silence, I feel protected.. And even in his absence, I feel seen and cared for. He won’t treat my dreams like idle chatter or as if they lack any importance or realism. He won’t let his ego lead him and when I stray from my center, he’ll direct me back to it.

omarisims 7 months

I went to MotherDisco by myself tonight, here are my Opinions… 1. “Sometimes being a gay Black man in a space like this feels like stepping into a room where you’re both the main character and the mystery guest.” 2. “There’s nothing like that moment when another Black queer person spots you across the room and you share that silent nod like, ‘You good? We safe? You cute.’” 3.“The best part? When the right song comes on — the one only the Black girls, the Black gays, and your spirit understand — and suddenly you’re not at Mother Disco anymore. You’re in a church. Your church.” 4.“Being Black and gay in a club is always a balance between: Do I want attention tonight or do I want peace tonight? Because I can’t have both.”

toimoiaussi_ 7 months

Style isn’t decoration for me — it’s language. I dress to say what I don’t feel like explaining. Clothing is a way to build identity, not to chase approval. I’m drawn to pieces that feel like protection: jewelry that looks like a weapon, silhouettes with structure, textures that carry story. Soft and sharp at the same time. Romantic and brutal. Fashion is supposed to express who you are before you speak. Roland Barthes called clothing a system of meaning, and I believe that. Style is how you choose to be understood without performing. I’m not trying to impress. I’m trying to be honest. So tell me: Do you dress to express yourself, or to fit in?

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joelleclover 7 months

Alright so since the owner of OF is a Zionist, where are content creators going instead? I’ve been thinking of starting an OF type thing for a while now. Where’s the best platform for sw creators?

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mikevi 6 months

I know not everyone likes or enjoys this time of the year because of the festivities, but i hope everyone has a pleasant month! pepermint icecream is in season!!

itsjacobedmonds 7 months

To any LGBTQ+ person on Thanksgiving: Know that you are loved and you are seen and you are accepted. You don’t need to apologize for being yourself. You deserve to eat all the food you want, and laugh as loud as you want. Because you matter. You belong here. And you are perfect just the way you are.

avatar.isaac 7 months

my titties have grown. is this what womanhood feels like?

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jvh 7 months

I don’t think so honey, collaborations with Zara.

breadhubby 7 months

Finished Hacks, what a fun show and I absolutely recommend it!

something_sharpe 7 months

I fear this year is the least interested in Christmas I’ve ever been.

fleaskinny 7 months

You know what? Hell no

strawbrry 7 months

December to me means Very Merry Delta, and the return of my obsessions with a Muppet Christmas Carole & retro holiday cards

lax 7 months

687 What a day… went all the way to the workout studio to realise I didn’t book a class.. and it was full..

theseus 7 months

Concept : Xmas dinner but it’s collective members only ❤️‍🔥✨

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eyeofpsi 7 months

Are there any Biomedical Engineers on here?

breadhubby 7 months

Phoebe bridgers wrecking havoc on my mental state once again by my own doing

maxu08 7 months

Don’t you just love it when the couple at the next table thinks you can’t understand a word they’re saying? The guy was talking absolute shit about me in their language, blissfully unaware I speak it fluently. Then he starts vaping, and the smoke blows right into my face. Cute. I finish my meal, pay the bill, get up to leave, and finally turn to them. “Thanks for the kind words,* BEEP *,” I say to him. Then to his wife: “Congrats on your choice of man, Madam.” His eyes go wide. She looks like she wants to disappear into the floor. 10/10 Pure Satisfaction

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loloinyourarea 7 months

where is my top dom crazy funny sunny cat lover to play video games 🐈

ethana 7 months

I fear I’m giving off demon twink when I’m intending to give off nymph twunk ….which is extremely different

lukeisdandy 7 months

Just saw two rats run down the alley and my first thought was, “Awww…they’re in love”. 🐁❤️🐀

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lax 7 months

689 Ended up not going to the club because I was tired..felt good because of that decision made

lax 7 months

682 Back alive today…not looking forward to going back to boring old work though

sub 7 months

Is this loneliness, or is it just adulthood? Or is adulthood really this lonely?

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eyeofpsi 7 months

So many hot people, yet they’re all so far away

southerncowrie 7 months

There’s a guy who mentions wanting to take me on a date, so I gave him my availability, told him give me a day/time/place and there’s been minimal follow through on each occasion. With me, you only get about two chances of words not lining up with actions before I become disinterested. After his second lack of follow through, I told him I’m no longer interested. He deflected by saying “You’re asking for too much”. Guess who just DM’d me and won’t be getting a reply? There’s a past version of myself that would’ve spiraled, not spoken up about the thing that bothered me and sat in discomfort with hopes that a different result would come. I’m happy to be in a place where I speak up for myself ✨

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muffyn 7 months

No one said being an Architecture student would me easy, and that shows, but hard work pays off 💅

georgeoooo 7 months

Why do good things happen to bad people. I’ve been talking to this guys I really like and we were going to meet up and he cancelled and now he’s ghosting me. I’m feeling so much stuff rn someone help me understand 🙏

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milly 7 months

When I was a kid my parents said the living room was booby trapped every Christmas so my sister and I would stay in bed until it was disarmed and to this day they refuse to say they just made it up so they could sleep in. I am 31 years old and they still are sticking to the bit that they had a series of traps that would go off and harm us if we tried to look at our gifts too early in the morning…

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ismael-now 7 months

Sí mijo, calm down, breathe, hydrate, then win. 💅🏽📊💖

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