ricardof014 4 months

still find it shocking the looks I get when I am speaking in german in the US…..as a latino living in the US. Like „ja digga, ich kann deutsch sprechen. Kein grund zu starren” 🫠🫠

euge 4 months

Que pasa hoy en día con las relaciones?? Es solo mi perspectiva o las cosas están jodidas para quienes queremos conocer a alguien para tener una relación?

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giving-mildly-impressive 3 months

I think that in most cases for gays to form emotional connections with someone (befriend), they deadass have to somewhat deem the other physically attractive…. And then there’s proximity connection

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yezan 4 months

Imagine leaving your country out of fear of being bombed and being dragged into conflicts you can’t control to go to safer, more stable regions, only to find you either experience racism and alienation or the threat of war again. This is the Arab experience, consistently determined by western imperialistic goals and ideology.

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nikolai 4 months

I know it’s a bit ironic to ask for that in an LGBT space but: how have you learnt about financial literacy and how do you stay financially stable? Correct answers only pls 💀💀💀

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roccochiii 4 months

Unfortunately my sympathetic nervous system isn’t fight or flight it’s flirt or flee 😔

0beron_0restes 4 months

I want that miracle chamber Captain America got into and left as a hunk

lynx 4 months

Anyone else ever get these moments of clarity? Like moments where u realize that u are? I tend to forget that and then it hits me in the most random moments

jesse-lee 4 months

Finally moved to my new place. Let the unpacking begin

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beefgrindr 3 months

Not been sharing because I feel everyone’s out to COPY & PASTE at every corner

lax 3 months

586 Feels like whenever I am at work, the weather becomes bright and sunny

sailormars 4 months

Today I saw this woman, and her two kids sitting in the subway. She looked tired, happy yet, tired. She was comforting the baby that was in a bad mood, she gave him cuddles, and the cuddles calmed him down. And I noticed myself, noticing her. And a part of me longing to say. You’re doing so well, thank you for being such a good mother. I got off in my station, said nothing. But my heart had so much to say… That act of kindness touched me.

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milly 3 months

Coconut and vanilla scents. Squeeze tube lip gloss. Glitter. Powder blue eyeshadow. The sound of layered jewellery when someone moves.

matic 4 months

Vinyl collectors - what are the best online stores?

andyj 3 months

Six Nations final - six teams in short shorts. What other good moments were there?

paul_apolinario 3 months

The only thing more powerful than hate is love

jarrodt83 4 months

How many days a week do you go to the gym? And generally how long are your sessions?

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drumstick_0428 4 months

Me and my wife want kids so bad but we have no one to ask to fulfill that dream, so now we decide to just try and find a decent looking loyal gay bestie that would be willing to help! Anyone interested?

strawbrry 4 months

bitch, the power of a good book!!! I read Milk Fed by Melissa Broden in 2 days.

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alvo 4 months

This app: You might like (insert cute person name here). Me: I do, but they happen to be from a country 11,000 km away from me.

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adriant 4 months

Where are my neurospicy queens at? 🗣️🗣️

sailormars 4 months

If you struggle with body image or confidence use this tools. I’ve used them in my journey of self improvement and I feel more joyful about life. 1) the job of your emotions it’s to protect you, be kind to them. 2) look at life like a video game, the bosses of the game are your emotional attachments. 3) shame is one of the hardest bosses to beat in the game, the antidote for the poison of shame is Joy. Move your body, express yourself, and remember that no one can shame you. Life has been given to you

rrccvrdo 3 months

the day anna wintour has zero haters means I will be dead

chavdar 3 months

Surely isolation is much worse than togetherness.

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soupwaylee 3 months

my friends are saying shut up jennie just get in the car

milly 3 months

Told my coworker my fave 3 movies and he goes “well I can tell you’re a feminist”

luke_vieira 3 months

For some reason my last post is randomly getting a lot of attention. Hairy legs are really that powerful, huh? Damn 😂

dayegee 4 months

“"I live in the realm of the senses." What an odd thing to say. Later that night, home in bed, I considered what he'd meant. The senses are pure experience, I decided; there is no sense for how things seem, which is what matters to the superficial.” — Holly Brickley, Deep Cuts: a novel (2025)

londen 3 months

told oomf I had a taste for a caramel macchiato today and he said that’s so “millennial” of me

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lax 4 months

598 After keeping an eye out for the pokemon museum, finally got the tickets for them 🥺

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sierramichhh 4 months

Im tired of fighting people at the gym to not step on/use MY yoga mat….it looks obviously different from the gym mats yet your first thought is “oh!! Let me walk all over it with my dirty sneakers!!!” I should rock ur shit fr

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giving-mildly-impressive 4 months

Need a pair of new pillows, ones that are firm,hard and bounce on command 🤭

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giving-mildly-impressive 4 months

Any gut wrenching sad movies recommendations? I’m trying to bawl my eyes out and rethink life…

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michaeljlyons 3 months

Was thinking about going to Hot Dog Sunday tomorrow. So I bought a ticket for memorial weekend. Planning ahead…

tempson 4 months

I keep sprinkling sumac on everything. It’s so sour but good.

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ryeryewhy 4 months

whenever this song comes on, it never gets skipped. most times it’s repeated. do you have a song/s like that?

andyjo 4 months

is anyone else starting to think perfection is boring?

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avatar.isaac 4 months

Checking in on my fellow Virgos. How we holding up?

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sierramichhh 4 months

Had my first chopped cheese yesterday…and again today….and probably tomorrow too🤤🤤😍

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studiokervo 3 months

I still don’t understand how people can get so good at Dominos ! yes im Caribbean, but I’m also an artist and all that counting and remembering is so out of my league.

sierramichhh 4 months

I don’t think its a coincidence at all that I had the WORST most traumatic nightmare filled with turnoil and chaos….and then wake up to being in WW3

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sailormars 4 months

Don’t be ashamed to be beautiful, don’t be ashamed to be kind, don’t be ashamed to be yourself. You don’t owe anyone anything, stop acting like you owe shame to people. Embrace the beautiful being you are, and create the most wonderful life for yourself. There’s no debt to be paid here, just a life to be lived.

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lynx 4 months

Can’t wait to wake up tomorrow. Even if it’ll be early. Formula 1 is so worth it getting up before 6 on a Saturday. And before 5 on Sunday haha

pnklmnade 4 months

all roads lead back to you or however the saying goes i’d run into dead ends with nowhere to turn but home dirty knees, no carpet clean, from all my wilderness and now the pinot makes the hero seem so villainess - unfinished song

marco 4 months

I dreamed of you holding me tightly, but it was only sunlight reaching me in bed through the open curtains.

mubeen 3 months

All handsome men live on this app I reckon

chandan 4 months

Lol Imagine rage-baiting yourself with imaginary scenarios and then losing sleep over it. Definitely me 👀😳

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sam2bh 4 months

i do fear that as a bi man in a hetero relationship i still won’t be accepted by the gay community which is kinda sad

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