saochiang 9 months

Still -40 F, now with ice fog thrown into the mix for flavor. For one solid month. It hasn’t been this consistently cold in at least a decade… it’s kind of surreal that a normalcy that I haven’t seen/felt in years is still going strong, and the first time since I was a teenager that I’ve wanted warmer weather to come back this badly… 🥶

landonlucev 9 months

he done just called me tall glass of milk. 😂😂

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jbenjamin 9 months

It drives me crazy when I mix up question marks and exclamation points? You feel the same!

psaltair 9 months

the thrill is gone away

timosworld 9 months

REAL TALK #13 "I will never understand why guys are not able to cancel a date instead of standing somebody up. Is it cowardness? Is it shame? Is it just ignorance and disrespect? It happened to me three times in a row now, with three different guys. Two of these guys did not even have the courage to respond to me when I asked for what happened. The third guy: "Why so much drama?" Even though I don't want to get bitter from these experiences, I do feel that it changes something within me."

luisteran 9 months

happy new year! i am certain this year will bring us all peace, love and closet to our goals, to anyone who is having/ had a hard time this past year, i wish you the absolute best and know that I’m here if anyone ever needs someone to listen, or talk to (even tho im not the best at texting back fast)

milly 9 months

Me every time I rewatch supernatural be like: 🧍🏻Wait actually, that reminds me ! This one time on supernatural…wait did you see the panel at comic con that one time ? Anyway…one time on supernatural they did this thing and it reminds me of that actually omg and also…

csg101 10 months

How I worked a double then gym then go out to the bars just to come back to a 7 am work out before work at 9 am is beyond me LMAO

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chandan 10 months

Went on a first date after 5 months and now im planning our wedding 🤣 Relatable?

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bratzboygee 9 months

may or not move to ATL

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vtang 9 months

Thinking of swapping LA for SF! 🌉 I’m looking for a community where values feel a bit more aligned. Do you think it’s a smart move, or should I stay put? • A. Total upgrade. Go for it! • B. Grass is always greener. Stay in LA. • C. Depends on what values you're chasing. Hit me with your advice/experiences! 🏳️‍🌈

rickeythompson 9 months

Being back home for the holidays is cute but ughhh I miss my bed

locke-e 10 months

You let me breathe, Even when I can’t see myself. For the nights I felt too full, Too heavy, A burden in my own mind. Knowing what was better for me, Was telling me to stop. To take it in, And come back when I was ready. I couldn’t see that from the start, Thought it was another careless thing to say. But I took your advice to heart, Ended a call, Made it short but sweet. Slept on it, Woke up, Feeling like me again. You were right, And maybe I was too blind, Too in my head, Stubborn to think I needed to take a pause. Thank you for trying to do what’s best, For telling me this wasn’t right. That me feeling this way, Could, And should, Be worked out in other ways.

petros97 9 months

Your fragrance shapes your world. Choose it like an investment. 🌟

alvaroreinoso 10 months

I need a new Solange album so bad 😩

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littledrew 10 months

Merry Christmas, boys🎄💕 You are loved, worthy and enough–remember that. Make your Yuletides gay today.

hehiminbloom 10 months

I might finally be able to get independent housing 🥳 From homeless to nearly housed by blessings after blessings

sierramichhh 9 months

My god, stupid people with stupid opinions hurt my brain so much im actually enraged rn. Shutting the fuck up is always an option! Hope this helps💜

sub 10 months

Consistency reveals what words try to conceal. Intentions exist everywhere; behavior is rare. We mistake intensity for depth, and charm for commitment. Relationships are not built on how things sound, but on what quietly repeats itself. What we practice matters more than what we promise. What stays matters more than what excites. Connection only exists where effort moves both ways. Without reciprocity, there is presence, but no meeting. Consistency, in the end, is the most honest form of care. Remember this the next time you fall in love, or when someone offers you connection. What isn’t shown is often the loudest truth.

zayn 9 months

what am i looking for? someone to have 4 daughters and 1 son with, you down or why you asking

nate 10 months

if I advocate for nuance does that make me non-binary

goluboi 9 months

where the chubby boys...

temporaryboyfriend 9 months

petition for video content…i have a lot to say.

mxaddo 9 months

Rewatching Looking and it’s still such a good showw

chandan 9 months

Why galarian birds are soo hard to catch!? They are literally the worst legendary ever

goldntimelover 9 months

i checked a place that was empty just to be sure

lax 9 months

652 Spent the evening with my close friend, catching up after the new years… time well spent 🤍

itsjacobedmonds 9 months

Happy New Year, gays!! 🎉 🏳️‍🌈

sierramichhh 9 months

Positively jealous of all the cute girls w hime cuts😍😍💋

shawnmendes 10 months

Can’t believe Season 1 already over. I need another 6 episodes pronto. And I need an invite to the cottage. My bags already packed lol.

nico-laos 9 months

nuovo in desperato bisogno di nuove amicizie/ conoscenze a milano ⭐️

fleaskinny 9 months

Posting a text because collective yelled at me for not having anything up for the last 3 weeks 😭 I’m sorry sir 😩😩🤪🤪…. Punish me. Please

sailormars 9 months

Be you, you’ll be fine

avatar.isaac 10 months

I stg Mona Lisa is a doll

canele 9 months

Fuck the US and its imperialism in Venezuela. Venezuela Libre de Imperialismo! ✊🏽

boszaloha 9 months

Soon, this year will come to an end. One thing we can give ourselves for everything we’ve been through is gratitude, because it is ourselves who carried us through so much, and it is ourselves who will continue into the year ahead. Thank you for being strong, and for growing another year. ✌🏻💪🏻

saochiang 10 months

One of two grad school applications replied back. Rejected on the basis of competition… Fair, really struggled with the cover letters, so I’m not surprised…. Still sucks though. One more school left to hear back from, meanwhile I’ll continue to look at other degrees in theatre and art…

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marcelek 10 months

What are your own countries’ Christmas traditions or just your own personal ones? Im curious 🎄 I’ll start > in Poland we often buy a carp (a big pond fish) and put in our bathtubs to live for a little (one day usually) before preparing it for deep fry to serve as one of the dishes for Christmas 🫣

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milly 10 months

People finding out I’ve never been in any kind of relationship is genuinely so fucking humiliating. It’s something that is just such a non issue to me but they’ll IMMEDIATELY start treating me like a child.

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michenoble 9 months

Idk whether to go out for New Year’s Eve or not, someone plz give me a definitive answer ;/

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psaltair 9 months

what do you listen to when you lift? lately I’ve been listening to Brazilian house and funk

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matt.vst 10 months

Trying to find a museum with an interesting architecture for a new linocut, any recommandations ?

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lax 10 months

670 Going to another Christmas dinner, it is nice to know that I have people around that don’t want me to feel lonely this time of the year and I truly appreciate it… Still I am exhausted, I wanna lie down and play some games

sailormars 9 months

Hey you, yeah you! The one reading this. You are such a babe 💋

austinsdalley 9 months

Ins: Colors House parties Cats Stability Classic silhouettes Tasteful risks Coffee Art on the wall Candles Big cities Gallery openings Boxer briefs Books Outs: Labubus Bad Clubs Polyester Consumerism High screen time Fitness food Fascism Fake plants Cool tone lights Small towns Bug spray Cerave (maybe) Monotheism

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milly 9 months

Bought a pair of knee high converse in the Boxing Day sales I’m about to be unstoppable

aphrodite.aphroditus 9 months

"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet" -Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet

mikevi 10 months

One Verry suprising side benefit Ive been gettin from this app is, slightly more confidence with my body image! I see other guys posting pictures with similar body types to me, BUT with Much much more confidence. And its like, damn, why or what am I worried about?

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omarisims 10 months

I’m running toward the life I asked for, but my feet feel heavy with doubt. Every dream I chase turns around and asks me why I don’t believe in myself yet. I sit alone with all this wanting— wanting to be seen, wanting to feel enough without proving it first. Some days I swear I’m close, other days I feel like the distance itself. Still, I wake up reaching, because even frustrated, even tired, this hope in me refuses to leave. And how I’d love it so— to arrive without apologizing for the time it took me to believe I was worthy of the dream the whole time.

paolosal97 10 months

Nicki minaj becoming MAGA is my last disappointment of 2025.

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gwaread 9 months

I forgot how to work? Like…. What do I even do?

romerolli 9 months

hasta que entiendas que no voy a dejarte ir tan fácil, yo soy ese lugar, donde podrás volverte frágil, frágil, no hay explicación, no te tengo una razón, simplemente sucedió, que esto entre tú y yo como un río se desbordó, fuimos lo que se llevó

cooleeule 9 months

Guys, what is this? I don't understand what to do 😂😅 Who can explain this to me?

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