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I grew up with Massive Attack, from the moment I was born. Probably before that too tbh. They’re my parent’s favourite band, as well as one of mine, and we’re going to see them together in a couple of months. I will probably cry. Which, while I’m here, there’s only a single song from them that I can not listen to. We had a family friend when I was young who was like an aunt to me, she also loved Massive Attack. When I was around 6 years old she was diagnosed with cancer and now heat miser always makes me think of seeing how sick she looked when I visited her in the hospital shortly before she died. I have to remove the song from every playlist and entirely refuse to ever play it. I’m not even really sure why the trauma is related to that track, from memory teardrop played at her funeral. I think it’s something to do with the heavy breathing on it.
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Coordinating my first food pop up at my friend’s wine bar. Super excited. Already have a supper club moment lined up for after too.
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Been playing Tomodachi life everyday, and I’ve made at least 20 Mii’s designed, named and personalized to be like characters from my favorite shows! Even a few of my favorite drag queens! I’m having so much fun!!! 😍🥰🫶🏻
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So all the Greek/Roman gods were just cruising and petty. Like they would just become humans “to be amongst us” but end up sleeping with someone almost everytime or getting their lick back on someone
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be honest, you are on collective for: a) friends b) the views c) dates d) validation e) Tumblr meets Grindr vibes f) no idea
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Genuine question.: Do you guys think that fit/“hot” guys feels superior than other people? I was thinking about that on Primavera S. Is this me being unconsciously jealous? 🤔
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“Discrimination is harmful no matter where it comes from even within our own community. Everyone deserves the freedom to be themselves without being judged for how they look, act, speak, or express who they are. We should celebrate individuality, not shame it. It’s time to end this prejudice and build a community based on respect, acceptance, and genuine inclusion for everyone.”
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Shrek 2 is one of the funniest movies ever made. Quote me.
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Ich würde einfach nur gerne aus meinem Leben springen, in einem Schleier der freien Existenz Eine kleine Pause vom Sein Sehen wie andere weitermachen, ohne selber dabei zu sein, schwebend in der parallelen Welt Am Strand die Sonne auf der Haut genießen, ohne hin zu müssen In den Tiefen des Sees das kalte Wasser fühlen, ohne schwimmen zu müssen In den Bergen die Luft und die Weite spüren, ohne hinauf zu müssen Ich würde gerne für einen Tag aus meinem Leben springen Alles fühlen ohne Gefühle zu haben, alles spüren ohne Berührung zu suchen, alles sehen ohne die Augen zu öffnen Nicht als Ganzes ich, aber als ein Teil von mir, würde ich gerne Erfahrungen sammeln, parallel und zugleich mitten drin dabei sein, dennoch nie wirklich dort sein. Frei bewegen ohne Drang, ohne Zwang, ankommen und abreisen wenn es einem gefällt, zu sehen was es auf der Welt gibt ohne Teil dieser Welt im Jetzt zu sein. Mitten drin, doch weit entfernt, Teil des Geschehens aber nicht Teil meines Lebens in diesem parallelen Moment. Ich würde gerne für einen Tag aus meinem Leben springen Keine Arbeit, keine Verpflichtung, kein Druck Sondern einfach mein Leben zu genießen, frei von Verantwortung, frei von Erwartung mit nur einer Aufgabe, zu sein. Ich schließe meine Augen, verschließe meine Sinne und lasse den Traum in meiner Fantasie kurz erblühen, um ein Leben zu haben, das frei ist, das nur meins ist, das einlädt zu sein.
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Forcing anyone to try to like/love you is one of the hardest things to learn and also one of the hardest things to unlearn.
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Question for the hospitality veterans. When you’re taken care of (expected or unexpected) what’s your return? I’m talking penny tab, massive comps, freebies etc. Curious the approach from others.
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Who is going to Fly 3.0 tonight? 🤩 Also are you going for the nostalgia or is it just me ?
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someone have tickets for Ariana Grande London??? 🙏🙏🙏😭😭
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KNICKS WON LETS GOOOOO
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anyone else navigating dating in their 30s? what’s your experience been like?
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Mountain Dew, baby, New York City. 🗽
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Unfortunately being an It girl means people will create fake beef with you but fortunately being an It girl means you never cared 🤣
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499 A random group of guys just offered me beer on the corner of Liverpool streets 😂
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Chaka Khan released a new song! I repeat, Chaka Khan has released a new song!
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502 Just bought a half baguette and munch on it like a pigeon eating a plain bread
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I hate dating sites these men don’t put any effort into their replies just one word while I’m asking them questions like damn why match with me 😞🫠
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Just saw the trailer for the live-action moana…why me and the Rock got on the same wig rn
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“Capitalism requires constant political intervention through austerity measures, corporate subsidies, and repression to uphold the pillars of private property and wage labor. The state acts as a protector of capital, not of the public interest.” Clara Mattei
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Oomf would Tell me to bark and i would
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I really thought “Backrooms” was meant to be queer cinema. Like, if you pointed a gun to my head and asked me the plot is.. I’d have said “idk something gay” 😖😖 lolllll
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I feel cut off from myself emotionally
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Looking for musical or audiovisual artists to have a cool network of friends. Also to collab, create, vibe, and explore life in the art field :)) Let’s connect 🤍🙌🏻
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“The role of imperialism: Capitalism’s internal contradiction has historically required the subordination of a global periphery in order to manage its own crises.” Clara Mattei
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“We must move beyond “network politics” and “economicism” toward the construction of a structured political organization (party) capable of competing with the level of organization of capital, yet rooted in popular assemblies and self-management“ Clara Mattei
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So I’m over all of social media at this point. I’m tired of defending my thoughts and actions just so people can make a smart ass comment and make me do it all over again. ✌🏻
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Accidentally misinterpreted the surprise phone calls, endearing compliments, dinners, days lying in the sun at the park, and late night chats in bed as interest. My b.
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just spent an hour in target searching for a needoh
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…People are so egocentric in their certainties that they believe they are deceiving others, while they are merely being controlled all the time…
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It’s been seven months since I joined the gym, today I found out I’ve gained 2kg in muscle and lost 2kg in body fat I honestly feel so happy that consistency showing up is working even with a few setbacks with my health along the way I’m still making progress I feel proud of
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I’m not like a HUGE gamer, but I have put some hours into certain games. Over 3000 hours into Animal Crossing, built like 6/7 islands all together. Maybe 1000 hours into Disney Dreamlight Valley. I’ve finished Pokémon Pearl, It Takes Two and Split Fiction. I’ve played some Pokémon Arceus, Little Misfortune, Sims 4, Palword, and attempted Grounded recently. I also played a little bit of Wild Flowers. I wanna try Pokémon Pokopia, and Tomodachi Life next!
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social moral high grounds—that make people forget that they should not be judging another human being. Entitlement, informed by dehumanizing logics. With time I’ve learned to not hand over my humanity to people. It’s not up for debate. Like what are we doing here? Grabbing groceries, getting a bite, filling up the gas tank. Then do THAT. We’re not here to debate my humanity—nor yours. I write this as a reminder to you. Do not let anyone deminish you. Do not let someone else’s judgment create shame within you.
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Every exercise is a lower back exercise... if you do it wrong enough.
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Any advice for expanding the social life as a deeply reserved person? Not introverted, just not jumping out the window to be extroverted. Starting a new life chapter and I wanna do stuff that doesn’t involve getting shitfaced without the pretentiousness that comes with sober activities (sometimes)
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stop saying “girl math” call it “spectacularly misguided financial reasoning”
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What is in the drinking water in Australia? 🔥🥵🤤
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Berlin what’s up?
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Imagine hiding behind a private comment AND a keyboard… girl that’s pathetic.
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Books recommendations to read this summer? i need ideas:)
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What’s your go to emoji? Currently I’m using: 🫣🫪🙂‍↔️🫠🫶
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Obsession is amazing but I can never watch it again😫😫
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Tried the Demo for Tomodachi Life this morning, and immediately bought it after playing for all of 10 minutes….. And I’ve been playing it damn near all day. Lol it’s so cute!
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I’ve had my window open while it’s been raining overnight and it’s been so nice to listen to.
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Hi 👋 I get dumped 2 months ago and still got up and down.. thought will be over after I had my first breakup 10 years ago but still constating that it really hurts .. got any advice ?
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